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Hi, my name is Kyle, I have recently turned 40 and i am facing a crisis. I currently work as an architect in my own business and although the failing econonamy has affected many, my business has stabilized and continues to be successful. However, the road to reach here was intense and has ruined my personal life. At the age of 14, I made a promise to my Grandmother, a member of the family whom I always possessed a strong relationship with. I promised that one day I will design her, her own house, next to the beach, so that she can escape the stuffy city life. However, on my 16th birthday she passed away form a car accident. I was distraught, and fell through great depression, However, I later decided to concentrate more on my ambition so that I could one day design that house, when I became successful. My obsession ruined me, I would find myself crying to tears when my grade weren't met and any sound that ruined my focus,would often lead me to great outbursts of anger, even to my closest friends. Going to church seemed to be the only thing that calmed me, perhaps it was because of the hope it has given to accomplish my dream. Eventually, I grew apart from friends and even struggled to even remember their names, and after university, I lost contact with most of my family and barely called those that I still did. By the time I received my masters degree I was alone. Unfortunately it was only till i finally did design my grandmother's house and had it built, did I realize that, although I accomplished my dream, I have lost everything. Now, I'm finally trying to get back to my old ways and become the me I was 24 years ago. However, the time was too long, my outbursts of anger are still there when I hear irritating noises, causing me to fire people for no reason in particular; Socializing is no longer as simple as it once used to be and I struggle to even go through dinner with my workers, instead staying alone comforts me. Is this a severe problem, if so, can I fix it?

The issue with this man is that he has a socializing issue, or issue with interacting with others. He has some kind of an obsessive behavior. He is suffering from Schizoid Personality Disorder, he cannot interact and stay with others well. He also suffers from compulsive disorder. He has times when he cannot control his anger and involuntarily throws angry attitude towards others. This person should try taking a long vacation to a place where he can relax. He should try forgetting about his job and actually enjoy himself.